People are into different kinks. Some ways you can sit on a man’s face with confidence and get intense orgasms include squatting, kneeling, aligning your vagina, and dominating. Some men love it when women sit on their faces. Some are afraid of telling their partners, while others have experienced it. You can introduce a kinky topic and tell your partner it is what you would wish to try if you are comfortable with them. You dominate your man when you sit on him while your man becomes the submissive partner. You are a lucky person if you have a man who craves this fetish. Consider taking advantage of the situation and feel the power it gives you. Try not to squeeze your man. Try and find a comfortable position for both of you. Consider having a signal your man can use when they feel suffocated, making it difficult to breathe. The different ways you can sit on a man’s face include; Ask your Man to Lie Down Your man should first lie down on his back. Ensure they are in a comfortable position before sitting on their face. This ensures you do not suffocate them or create enough space for them to breathe. Get Into Position You can lay yourself in the ’69 position’ after your man lays down and are in a comfortable position. Be upright and put your knees on either side of the head. Ensure you are also comfortable in that position. Some dominants may find it hard to kneel. They prefer to be in the squatting position. This position may not be the best because you will apply pressure on your leg muscles, causing strain. You will get tired easily. You can try supporting yourself with pillows if you get tired. Consider using a pillow to offer you a stable position and comfort. Align Your Vagina to His Face Try making your vagina be towards his face when in the ’69position’. It can either be the vagina or the anus. Whatever you both decide should be pleasurable. You can try this by ensuring your knees are bent and your hips are slightly lowered. Support Yourself You will get tired after some time if you don’t support yourself. You can use your hands to support yourself. Try placing your hands on your man’s stomach or the bed. It will give support, and the possibility of getting tired will be minimal. Have Some Pleasure Komisaruk & Whipple (2011) suggested that your man could start by licking your vagina or the anus when in the right position to stimulate them. Your man can grab your leg if they feel the vagina or the anus are far from their reach and adjust yourself into the position working for you. Your man may want to go deeper; they will try to pull your body closer to his face, especially the mouth, to get some pleasure. It will happen when your man wants to have much pressure on them. Your man will slightly and gently push you away to get some air if the pressure gets much. This happens when your man feels suffocated. You can try and slightly put yourself in a position where you can reach your partner’s penis and give a hand job or a blowjob. Both of you will feel pleasure as you perform sexual activity with each other. Change Position Both of you might feel the position has become boring. You may switch your position and let your man dominate (McIntosh, 1988). You can also face the other side. Ensure the direction you are changing to has a wall or something you can hold onto. Try to hold yourself onto the wall or anything near you. It will help you balance while sitting with your partner. You can try and dominate your man if you are light enough. You can wrap your legs around your man’s head if they want to feel some pressure and ask for it. Grind to Have Some Fun Sitting on your partner does not necessarily mean you cannot do anything else. McCarthy & McCarthy (2013) stated that you could put on some erotic or soft music to create a sexual mood. Have fun on your partner’s face and try to grind on their face gently. He can be licking your vagina or the butt while grinding on them. They may feel the pressure and the pleasure they want to get. Avoid overdoing the process, for it may suffocate your partner. Ensure you use safe words like ‘please stop, gently, or harder’ to signal to stop or continue grinding when the pressure is much or less. You can also use non-verbal cues like a pinch on the leg to show you need to stop the activity and stand from their face. Be Creative While sitting on your partner’s face, you can try different sexual activities like stroking your partner’s penis, giving them a blow job, or playing with the nipples. You can light the room dim to enhance the mood for sexual activities. A femdom can also use a face-sitting sex position as a reward. You can engage in BDSM plays while sitting on your partner’s face. According to Ortmann & Sprott (2012), you could lock your man’s hands and feet on the edge of a bed or chair and sit on their face. Ensure you talk to your partner before introducing the plays. Let your man enjoy the pleasures of BDSM plays. Introduce kissing your partner’s erogenous zones while grinding on their face. This will be possible when your man has a crazy fetish for the face sitting position. Conclusion While you are role-playing, and they do something in the right way and how you love it, you can try to sit on your man’s face as a reward. You can take it away from your man as a punishment if they fail to do it the way you wanted. You can tease your man’s erogenous zones and deny them sex, but ensure to give them and have pleasure together at the end of the play. References Komisaruk, B. R., & Whipple, B. (2011). Non-Genital Orgasms. Sexual And Relationship Therapy, 26(4), 356-372. Mccarthy, B., & Mccarthy, E. (2013). Rekindling Desire. Routledge. Mcintosh, P. (1988). 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