HOW TO BE A BAD GIRL TO YOUR PARTNER

You’ve tried to get your man interested in you, but nothing works. Herein are things to do to make you a bad girl for your partner, including; dressing, talking dirty, wanting it more, taking control, and grooming yourself.

According to Carmalt et al. ( 2008), a man is attracted to the woman’s physical appearance. You can dress sexy for your man at a party or date to make him interested. Being a bad girl doesn’t mean that you engage in wild sex. Below are tips on how to get your man interested in you.

Dress sexy

You know what makes men turn their necks. There’s nothing sexy as showing a little of your skin. Your partner will be amazed by a sexy fresh look. You can entice your partner with a look that screams for attention at the right moment and place. Let your partner crave your touch as you wear a skin-tight or revealing outfit; this gives your partner a new perspective on you and rekindles the spark. 

A simple lingerie outfit will do the trick, whether for that special dinner or home. You don’t have to be in public to surprise your partner as they come home to find you in a fancy sexy outfit in the kitchen or lying in bed. They know you have prepared something sweet for them. The best thing is that you don’t have to say anything; the outfit and your sexy looks will do the talking for you.

According to Schimpfossl (2014). Avoid overdressing because your partner might perceive you differently. They will have their eyes on you like they want to rip them off or devour you.

Talk dirty

People who have been dating for a while may misinterpret this idea. Impress your partner with carefully chosen words to turn them on. You can try to win their attention again with simple flirting tricks, and you are excited to try them on your partner. 

A simple glass of wine will smoothen things for you. You can try playing interesting games such as trying to win your partner’s affection like you met them for the first time. You can play two strangers meeting at the bar and see where things go for the night. There is nothing sexier than dirty talk with your partner.

Want it more

There is an opinion that men should be the first to make a move. Women can also do it. Gailey & Prohaska (2011) noted that men love it when women show that they are into them and take charge during sexual activities. Lead them on with a simple kiss when they least expect it, and show them that you are doing it for both of you. Your partner will turn on when you show interest in them. They will tease you more for a  pleasurable experience. 

Men are obsessed with sexual intercourse. They love to have a presentable girl in public and to their parents,  but they love it better when the girl is a naughty little demon when it comes to romance. Be daring and crazy with your partner;  A simple spank on your man’s butt will do. 

Men love confident women. Women who know what they want will be a turn-on for men. Try to stand up for yourself more often and let your partner know that you can independently take care of yourself. Your confidence will attract your partner more. Your partner might help you make some decisions, but it is important to show them you are confident. Be brave and try something new with your man, don’t wait for him to do everything first. Don’t get bored easily in bed; keep doing things that excite both of you. Show him how much you enjoy sex by moaning louder or telling him how good he makes you feel inside. 

A bad girl is not only a sexy dress or naughty words; it’s an attitude every woman has inside her if she wants to bring it out. Be a bad girl in bed with a man, and he will never get enough of you.

Take control in bed

Your man might not be a mind reader like that fictional character in a book or a movie, but they will love it when you tell them what you love. It is okay to let them impress you with their skills, but it’s better when they know they are doing it the way you like it. Be straightforward with what you want and assert your dominance in the bedroom. They call it the bedroom, as dominant as men can be; they love it when you take control. It will be nice to surprise them with your dominant role in bed. 

Harvey & Gill (2011) stated that you could choose to spice things with your partner with a BDSM night. This effort will spice your sex experience leading to a mindblowing orgasm.

Clean yourself up nicely

Sawyer (2007) noted that a sexy piercing or tattoo is a great way to freshen your look. Keep your tattoo clean and free of infection. Men are easily turned off by a woman who doesn’t take their hygiene easily; it might not be that easy for them to tell you to clean yourself more. They want to eat every inch of your skin and impress you with their tongue skills, but they want to know that the plate they lick is clean. It is important to take care of yourself more; it will help bring your confidence to another level as you make love. You can do this by exercising and doing yoga. You can join a bad girl’s club where they show you how to pierce body parts like eyebrows and belly buttons.

Conclusion

Being a bad girl doesn’t mean you have to pick up all bad girl traits, but some are worth trying. Your partner will want more from you. Some traits might have an outstanding effect on your partner, resulting in them wanting more. Your partner will appreciate your effort to keep your relationship relevant and interesting.

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Carmalt, J. H., Cawley, J., Joyner, K., & Sobal, J. (2008). Body Weight And Matching 

With A Physically Attractive Romantic Partner. Journal Of Marriage And Family, 70(5), 1287-1296.

Gailey, J. A., & Prohaska, A. (2011). Power And Gender Negotiations During Interviews 

With Men About Sex And Sexually Degrading Practices. Qualitative Research, 11(4), 365-380.

Harvey, L., & Gill, R. (2011). Spicing It Up: Sexual Entrepreneurs And The Sex 

Inspectors. In New Femininities (Pp. 52-67). Palgrave Macmillan, London.

Sawyer, S. (2007). Body Piercing And Tattooing: The Hidden Dangers Of Body Art. The 

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